My Approach to Counseling for Depression, Anxiety, and
Relationship Problems
Counseling does not need to be an unstructured
endeavor that aimlessly meanders around the vast and
complex landscape of your life. My strength is
in helping you to pinpoint and transform the core underlying
issues that will impact your healing process most
effectively.
I have a present-centered focus, which
means that together we identify the important aspects of your
life that you would like to change. Then using specific
counseling techniques,
I support you to overcome the barriers from your past that
are blocking you from achieving your goals in the present.
Thus, the past is only touched on as a means of creating
greater freedom and fulfillment in the present.
My approach works toward strengthening your
sense of wholeness and empowerment. If you've
had painful experiences in your past, it’s easy to
doubt yourself or to start believing that you are flawed.
You may have even begun to overlook your talents and
resources. My role is to help you release the barriers
that hold you back from reconnecting with your
inner-strength and confidence.
Because I have an integrative counseling
approach, I combine a wide range of therapeutic
skills to meet your personal needs and facilitate deeper
healing. I draw on years of experience with my own meditation
practice and from facilitating guided meditation, relaxation,
body-awareness, and visualization exercises. This tends to
significantly enhance the therapy techniques that I use,
including EMDR,
Energy Psychology, and
Body-Mind Therapy. This
approach also helps to draw on your intuition and wisdom as
part of the healing process.
By utilizing a psycho-spiritual counseling
orientation, I am able to blend methods and
perspectives from Western psychology and the Eastern
spiritual traditions. Western psychology
is especially strong for identifying and working through
the painful feelings, distorted beliefs, and unhealthy
behavior patterns that are at the root of anxiety,
depression, and relationship problems.
Eastern spirituality offers another dimension
in the quest for optimal mental health, facilitating
a deepening into your true nature, which contains the
inherent qualities of love, happiness, presence, and
inner-freedom. A deeper connection with your true nature
is a powerful antidote to feeling unhappy and dissatisfied.
Utilizing both perspectives – East and West –
offers a very effective approach to growth and healing.
My passion is in helping you to release the painful
patterns and ways of thinking that hold you back in life, so
that you can live more fully in the present.
In my approach to counseling for depression, anxiety,
and relationship problems, I utilize a highly effective
3-Part Healing Process:
1. Release Feelings Associated with Trauma
We begin by releasing the negative feelings
that are associated with past traumas, such as anxiousness,
sadness, helplessness, panic, and fear. I use
specific counseling techniques that gently and effectively
help you to neutralize the emotional charge associated
with anxiety, depression, and relationship struggles.
2. Transform Negative Thinking
After we have neutralized the feelings, we next work on
your negative thinking. Based on difficult experiences from
earlier in your life, you may have developed certain
negative beliefs that reinforce your anxiety, depression,
and relationship struggles. I utilize effective counseling
methods that help you transform your negative
thoughts into a positive, empowering mindset.
Imagine how much different your life would be if you
experienced thoughts that were positive and supportive
of your life goals!
3. Shift Unsatisfying Behavior Patterns
I help you to shift the unsatisfying behavior
patterns that fuel your anxiety, depression, and
painful relationship problems. By overcoming your fear of
rejection, social withdrawal, perfectionism, inner criticism,
addictive behaviors, and other patterns, you can
experience greater happiness and a better relationship
with yourself and others.
The ultimate goal of our work together is to
help you experience a greater sense of empowerment,
fulfillment, and satisfaction in all areas of your life.
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